 Re: dealing with anxiety?
The problem is that you are letting your big head interfere with your little head...
If you can stop yourself from thinking about it, get through a few complete cycles of "erection to ejaculation" successfully, and maybe laugh about it a little bit, then you may just be able to get beyond it. If you keep thinking "I hope there's not a problem, I hope there's not a problem...." the whole time you are starting to have sex, then there WILL continue to be a problem.
The excitation/arousal process needs to be accompanied by good mental imagery to work right (relaxation, not worry) - You need to do a little mental disconnect. That's the physiological process. Maybe the guys on here can help you a little more with just HOW to do that...
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