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Old 04-06-2006, 07:26 AM   #6 (permalink)
EvilMJ
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EvilMJ gives some great advice
Default Re: Boy have I got problems

Well I have to agree with the the line of thought that this is your boyfriend and not your husband. Are you willing to give up the three years you invested in him to go into swinging, keeping in mind that just like any activity the newness will wear off over time, and it definately has a lot of downsides to it. Ultimately the choice has to be this: Which one CAN'T you live with out?

Take some time and have a serious discussion with him and determine if you can reach a comprimise, are you going to have to get out of swinging all together, or are you going to have to end the relationship. Only you know the answer to this one.
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