assuming that you love him and you are in touch with your emotions. HIT THE BRAKES.
its defanitly time to comunicate not swing.take some time.determin where your relationship is. remember only move as fast as the slower person in a commited relationship.take some advice from the members here and realy talk this out. you feel that you belong here in this lifestyle, it takes 2 people sharing those feelings in a relationship. best wishes with comunication.