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Originally Posted by winemedinemewha Boyfriend of 4 years.. HE introduced ME to swinging and it felt like --- ahhhh, THIS is what I've been looking for...
Now he doesn't want to "share me" because he has realized he "loves" me. Lessee, how the heck did he feel for the FIRST three and a half years when we had an open relationship (at his insistence)??
I love him but I don't want to give up swinging. It feels like something I've been looking for all my life and I want to explore it more, even on my own. I feel like he's just trying to control me (first he wants it, then he doesn't, blah blah) but perhaps he's right and I am just being selfish... |
Hi, I am a little confused do you mean swinging as in both of you together meet singles/couples/groups for 3/4somes and group sex and never apart or
you had an open relationship where you both met people individually?
or a bit of both?
It makes a big difference to any answers IMHO
From the "I love you statement" I suspect you mean "open relationship"