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Old 04-04-2006, 06:00 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by JnCC
Welll, OK...but you guys have to admit that not many couples...maybe 5%...are seeking the same. I still contend that very few...again, maybe 5%...of single males who post ads on SB or SN ever actually meet someone through those ads. That leaves a lot of unhappy campers who are convinced that their lack of success is because of prior transgressions committed by other single males.
I think their lack of success has to do with their own actions. Like I said, the good ones really stand out from the crowd.

Now maybe some couples are very closed-minded when it comes to single men, many for reasons other then them being lecherous. Some because hubby is uncomfortable with his wife and other men so they are looking only for women, or they both like to get some so it keeps it all equal and nobody feels left out. Some would rather search out a single guy rather then have their email inboxes innundated with emails about "I love to give oral".

By and large, I think it is the individual that screws it up for himself and just makes couples more weary. We've covered some of the handles these guys use on their profiles here . I mean, what were they thinking when they wrote their profile! They lost before they even started the race.

Doesn't mean we're against them though, and in my experience many more couples would love a MFM if they could find the right guy.

Mr. WS
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