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Originally Posted by JnCC If "we" aren't accepted by the swinging community at large, it's not because some guy, 5-odd years ago, stuck his dick in some womans face. It's most likely because our presence isn't vital to the swinging community...never has been, never will be. |
I beg to differ here. Single guys bring allot to the swinging community because for many of us a MFM is one of the great aspects of swinging.
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When "we" treat couples the way "we" would like to be treated by single males if the women present were our wives and girlfriends, "we" usually share the friendship and cameraderie of those in the lifestyle, even if "we" aren't invited into their bedrooms. And that's good enough for me...
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This is the point. Too many treat our wives like playthings that are just there for the taking; something to use, abuse, and forget. The good ones really stand out in the Lifestyle and the bad ones pass through almost unnoticed except for a couple of raunchy emails in the inboxs of couples.
I can say that without a doubt the best experiences we've had with single males have been those that were married before or were in the lifestyle when they were married because they have been on both sides of the fence. And we'll invite them into our bedroom anyday. They are great. But, single guys get the bad rap because the majority of them are lecherous. We wish more were better mannered. But in all fairness we give all of them a chance, read all of their profiles and respond to all of their emails.
Mr. WS