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Originally Posted by WesternSwing Mrs. WS laid down on the couch in a part of the house the party wasn't happening in, when she opened her eyes there was a single guy standing above her with his dick hanging an inch from her lips. She was pissed! The host kicked him out. |
We had an almost identical experience at a club one night. My wife was in one of those "love chair/stirrup" things and my head was between her legs, when I felt her jolt. I looked up to see some guy jacking himself, literally inches from her face. (This was in an area of the club that was clearly posted off-limits to single males)
I said, "Excuse me, but what,
THE FUCK, do you think you're doing?"
He replied, "Oh sorry. Is this a problem?"
The basic problem was that the couple who owned and managed the club had stopped policing the place on weekends, and the singles and lookie-loos were taking the place over. We stopped attending that club shortly thereafter.
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Also makes a good case why single guys get such a bad rap, many not deserved.
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OK, going off-topic for a bit...
"We" single guys love to hear that, because it absolves us of responsibility for our general lack of success in the swinging community. "We", as a group, like to think that it's always those "other guys" who are bringing "us" down.
I don't buy that.
I have a friend of another race who, during a civil disturbance (that's a
riot, for you country folks), made a similar comment...
"What those people are doing makes us all look bad."
I said, "No, they make
themselves look bad. If you treat people the way you expect to be treated, asking nothing more and accepting nothing less in return, you'll always have the respect of those who really matter"
I feel the same way about single guys in the lifestyle...especially ME, now that I am one. The guys described above and I are all single. But
they go to couples-only areas of swing clubs and wave their dicks in strange women's faces...
I don't!
How could any reasonable person possibly confuse
THEM with
ME?
Single guys...in fact, people in general...need to learn to accept responsibility for those faults, and ONLY those faults, which are their own. If "we" aren't accepted by the swinging community at large, it's not because some guy, 5-odd years ago, stuck his dick in some womans face. It's most likely because
our presence isn't vital to the swinging community...never has been, never will be. "We" bring little if anything to the table. When "we" treat couples the way "we" would like to be treated by single males if the women present were
our wives and girlfriends, "we" usually share the friendship and cameraderie of those in the lifestyle, even if "we" aren't invited into their bedrooms. And that's good enough for me...
Allright, off my soapbox ...for now