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Originally Posted by Chris&Suzanne JnCC you are so wrong.
Lets picture you and your date at a swing club, and getting a little touchy-feely, then it would be o.k. for one or more othe guys to begin touching her (or you) |
No...it was
wrong for the guys to touch the girls, unless they either had permission, or some pretty good indications it was OK to do so. She should have asked them not to do it again, and if they persisted, informed the hosts.
All I was saying is that before anybody complains about how other people act around them, they first ought to ask ourselves what, if anything, they're doing to
encourage those actions. For example, it's clearly
wrong to break into a persons car and steal from it. But if you leave your purse in full view on the front seat and somebody
does break in and steal it, you're not going to get as much sympathy from the police as you would if it had been locked in the trunk at the time of the break-in.
These girls know how it starts, and they know where it leads. As she herself said, "this happens a lot" (her words, not mine). It's hard to sympathize with her, when she seems so unwilling to learn from her past experiences. As they say..."If you keep
doing what you've always
done, you'll keep
getting what you've always
got"
It sounds like the host of this party encourages, or at least tolerates, this sort of behavior from his single male guests. If they're not willing to change their behavior, they probably ought to find another party where the guys are kept in line.
Of course, there are other ways to cure the problem of guys humping the ladies. Like for example, smacking them on the ass with a rolled-up newspaper and saying in a loud, commanding voice...
"NO! I said NO!! Now go over there and LAY DOWN!" as if they were ill-behaved, love-smitten Cocker-Spaniels.
Now
THAT would probably bring them right down...