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Originally Posted by intuition897 I'd have a word with the hostess and let her know that you would really (REALLY) prefer if there was a room or somewhere you could go for more privacy, because the open door policy seems to be causing you some problems with some of the guests. |
I basically agree with
Intuition on this, but I think you need to own a little responsibility for how your own actions contributed to what took place. I don't care
what the policy of the hosts was, there are always ways of finding a quiet, secluded place to make out at any party. My guess is that you chose not to do that precisely
because there was a "pack of horny single men" following you.
I'm not making excuses for their inappropriate behavior, but you obviously knew you had an audience comprised mostly of single guys. Knowing that your husbands weren't around to keep an eye on things, how did you
think those guys were going to respond? Obviously, you were sending out signals that could easily be mistaken, especially by single males with little or no experience in the lifestyle.
Bottom line? "If you don't want the peaches, don't shake the tree"