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OhioCouple · 01-05-2003, 02:28 PM

I suppose I should clarify something here. We were at a club one night when a young twenty something woman got what I thought was rather frisky with my husband. I was disturbed about it and took him aside and told him to put an end to it. They weren't doing anything wrong mind you, but it just made me feel creepy as I have a son who is 26 years old. That was when I made the hard fast rule of no one under 40, which even to date we have adhered to, though I have changed my thinking regarding this issue.

I believe that my feelings were based on a couple of things the issue of age and the fact that I am no longer 20 something. The young lady was absolutely charming and intellectual but I never gave her a chance. She was a single with a group of other people that were real boring and she struck up a conversation with my husband and they hit it off. After having had some detailed conversations with other 20 somethings the last few months, I feel that I was wrong in judging someone by their age alone and not looking at the person as a whole. I have only gone so far though to change our profiles to no one younger than the age of 30, but it doesn't mean that if we happen to meet someone that we really hit it off with that we wouldn't consider it now.

Lori

01-05-2003, 02:28 PM	#6 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I suppose I should clarify something here. We were at a club one night when a young twenty something woman got what I thought was rather frisky with my husband. I was disturbed about it and took him aside and told him to put an end to it. They weren't doing anything wrong mind you, but it just made me feel creepy as I have a son who is 26 years old. That was when I made the hard fast rule of no one under 40, which even to date we have adhered to, though I have changed my thinking regarding this issue. I believe that my feelings were based on a couple of things the issue of age and the fact that I am no longer 20 something. The young lady was absolutely charming and intellectual but I never gave her a chance. She was a single with a group of other people that were real boring and she struck up a conversation with my husband and they hit it off. After having had some detailed conversations with other 20 somethings the last few months, I feel that I was wrong in judging someone by their age alone and not looking at the person as a whole. I have only gone so far though to change our profiles to no one younger than the age of 30, but it doesn't mean that if we happen to meet someone that we really hit it off with that we wouldn't consider it now. Lori
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