[JTcamp05]

You have a few hard questions in your post. I can't expect you will find too many people in this format that will agree with your boyfriends behavior or thought process. I do however think that your response of "taking a break" from sex with him is the correct response. It sure sounds like he has many many issues to work through. I would think that you continuing so have sex would not solve anything, only continue his confusion.

Many people outsid of the swinging lifestyle I'm sure feel that we as swingers are all sinners and will burn in hell ect...ect..ect... I think this is a very much unfair and un true perception. In fact I consider myself a religious person. Do I feel that what we do is right in the chruch's eyes...."no"....Do I feel guilty for it...."no".... I just accept who I am and what I do. On the other hand do I feel that I am a sinner for these actions....."no"..... I am a good person, I live my life as a good person does, I make decisions in life based on how I feel a good person would and should make them...... Why should anyone feel guilty for living like that?

Thats my views everyone is different though.....I wish you two the best of luck....I hope he can find peace with the road he takes!!