Thread: Experiences with telling vanilla friends about swinging lifestyle involvement
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Old 03-27-2006, 07:58 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Default Re: should we tell?
We have several friends that know and we also have several former friends that now know and will no longer associate with us. I just wanted to add to what the others have said that in all cases of friends that know about our swinging just their knowing it has changed the friendship between us, and so far, none of the changes were in a good way. With the ones that are still on speaking terms with us they are just more distant than before, we don't get invited to their vanilla functions as much as we used to. So if they are good friends and you like the friendship the way it is, I wouldn't tell them.
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