 Re: should we tell?
Had a less explosive experience that was similar to Alura's.
Mr. intuition was talking guy-talk with my sister's husband (I know, you can see where this is going, eh?) and he talked about how he and I sometimes went up to the clubs in Toronto to see our friends. Which clubs? Well, of course one tid-bit leads to another and before long Mr. intuition tells BIL that they're "sex clubs". You mean like strip joints? No, like swinger's clubs. He says he wishes there was some way he could get my sister to go to one of those. Mr. intuition says, for God's sake, don't bring it up to her. Tell her to come and talk to me (Mrs. intuition). Well, for a while we hear nothing about it. Then during conversation between all four of us some time later, someone mentions something about me just having fun (with something, don't remember what it was now...not important). Dear sister dryly remarks, "I don't think [Mrs. intuition]'s idea of 'fun' is the same as MY idea of fun.", followed by an awkward moment of silence. Mr. intuition shoots BIL a scowl, and BIL looks sheepish. It was obvious to all of us what she was talking about.
So many times I just think, "Oh to hell with it! Just grow up people! If you don't like it, don't look." :rollseyes:
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