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Old 03-27-2006, 03:51 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Default Re: should we tell?

We live on a military base, and for those of you with the experience, you know it's cose quarters and such. With the constant deployments, Kat came out to our next door neighbor a while ago, as she had started asking questions about a girl who had come to stay with her.

They are still good friends, and although she sometimes cringes when kat offers to help her straighten out clothing, there is no otherside view of things.

The thing is, they also have never told anyone.

Before you feel out your friends, ask yourself if they are the type who might mention it to someone else in your group of friends. They might be closer to ya'll now, but a small circle of friends, things might get mentioned. You might end up outing yourself to your whole group of friends.

Caution is my reccomendation, especially in areas where this might be very seriously frowned upon.
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