 Re: should we tell?
When making choices two questions I always ask myself are, "What do I expect to gain by doing this?" "What am I risking?"
In your case, the answers seem to be 1) nothing, and, 2) a close friendship and maybe more if they are disgusted and share that with others. So I would really ask myself why I would want to do this.
I know that you are really excited by your new life and want to share your excitement with your friends. That's natural. But don't assume that the reaction will be positive. We have only told one person, someone we thought would be very accepting.... lets just say that we have never raised the subject again.
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