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loverboy68 · 03-20-2006, 09:22 AM

Iowancouple,
This has happened to me w/ my wife as well .. One reason that comes to mind is he is extremely excited abt the goings on ... rather than pressuring himself to come good .. he should maybe take it easy and soft swing .. You indicated he gets hard while flirting .. perfect ! maybe he can continue to flirt / fondle and live in that moment rather than "getting it on" .. When this happened to me, I misconstrued it to be ED ... I went on viagra ! but didn't help ! So I tried the "take-it-easy" method and Boy .. was that fun ..
Has been since !
Hope this eases your mind and happy flirting ! Remember there are other "sensory" organs in the human body other than our sexual organs !

03-20-2006, 09:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
loverboy68 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1 Location: NJ Status: Couple	Re: Help! Problems "rising" to the occasion... Iowancouple, This has happened to me w/ my wife as well .. One reason that comes to mind is he is extremely excited abt the goings on ... rather than pressuring himself to come good .. he should maybe take it easy and soft swing .. You indicated he gets hard while flirting .. perfect ! maybe he can continue to flirt / fondle and live in that moment rather than "getting it on" .. When this happened to me, I misconstrued it to be ED ... I went on viagra ! but didn't help ! So I tried the "take-it-easy" method and Boy .. was that fun .. Has been since ! Hope this eases your mind and happy flirting ! Remember there are other "sensory" organs in the human body other than our sexual organs !