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dayhiker · 03-20-2006, 07:30 AM

That has got to mess with a guys head. I can think of quite a few reasons why it would. But of course have no clue as to the spacific reason your hubby is having the issue. I'd slow down. Keep to more of a soft swap. you might look at it as going back to dating. I guess dating for many is the 3rd date to go all the way today. But when I dated it was many dates to get to 2nd or 3rd base. I enjoyed every part of that slow process. So maybe slow down and enjoy the process and don't plan on getting to full swap so fast. Relearn why each step is so exciting and fun.
I think with each step and talking between you two will bring a comfort level to move to the next step. A next step with the mojo working well.

dayhiker

03-20-2006, 07:30 AM	#3 (permalink)
dayhiker Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 237 Location: MA Status: Single male Swing Lifestyle Name:dayhiker	Re: Help! Problems "rising" to the occasion... That has got to mess with a guys head. I can think of quite a few reasons why it would. But of course have no clue as to the spacific reason your hubby is having the issue. I'd slow down. Keep to more of a soft swap. you might look at it as going back to dating. I guess dating for many is the 3rd date to go all the way today. But when I dated it was many dates to get to 2nd or 3rd base. I enjoyed every part of that slow process. So maybe slow down and enjoy the process and don't plan on getting to full swap so fast. Relearn why each step is so exciting and fun. I think with each step and talking between you two will bring a comfort level to move to the next step. A next step with the mojo working well. dayhiker