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Old 03-20-2006, 12:09 AM   #1 (permalink)
iowancouple96
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Question Help! Problems "rising" to the occasion...

Hubby and I have just recently started full swapping. Our first experience went good till we swapped partners. Hubby was hard when he was with me, but when he got over to the other woman, it just went limp. And there was absolutely no reviving it. He felt absolutely HORRIBLE all week. It definately hurt his ego. Now we went to a house party about a month ago. One of the girls there took him in a different room, and "broke" him in. Now he had a little bit of a difficulty getting hard that time, but he finally got there, and everything went good. Last night we went out with a couple and when we got back to the house, we swapped partners and went our separate ways. I guess she blew him, and he said he was rock hard, went down on her, and it started going down (it had nothing to do with her). She got him rock hard again, he went to put the condom on, and down it went again. Now the guy I was with last night had the same problem when it went to putting the condom on, but I got him hard again and we went on our way. So hubby's been walking around today bummed out. I guess he's not feeling really 'manly' right now. Not sure what's wrong with him. I know this stuff happens, but when is he gonna get his mojo goin? I hate seeing him this way! Any advice is greatly appreciated! Thanks so much!
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