The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Playing with a Soft swing couple but want more

**good times** · 03-10-2006, 05:11 PM

As we have often stated around here, we have very few rules, but one of them is if either one of us is not having a good time or is in any way uncomfortable with another couple we are playing with we stop and move on. One of the most common reasons we will move on is if the other couple has so many restrictive rules that it ruins the fun, this is actually pretty common, especially with newbies. Or it may be a case that their rules just don't mesh well with ours. We always respect our play partners rules and will never try to convince them to change their rules for us, the way we look at it is if their rules don't mesh with ours, we are not compatible with them so we politely decline to play with them and move on.

03-10-2006, 05:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	Re: Soft swing couple with full swing intentions As we have often stated around here, we have very few rules, but one of them is if either one of us is not having a good time or is in any way uncomfortable with another couple we are playing with we stop and move on. One of the most common reasons we will move on is if the other couple has so many restrictive rules that it ruins the fun, this is actually pretty common, especially with newbies. Or it may be a case that their rules just don't mesh well with ours. We always respect our play partners rules and will never try to convince them to change their rules for us, the way we look at it is if their rules don't mesh with ours, we are not compatible with them so we politely decline to play with them and move on. __________________ R (He is R, she is P)