~Being so far apart from your boyfriend how and when did you both decide to swing? (Even though you've not actually done it yet). When we first started dating, we had an "open" relationship that was a complete disaster. I honestly have no idea why I stayed with him in the beginning. But, he's always encouraged me to sleep with other guys if I wanted, and I did.
I started to read sex blogs (before I became obsessed with this board) and found some about swingers that I thought were so hot. I showed him one when he came to visit in November and he said "that would be so hot". We didn't really talk much about it at the time. But once he left, we found this board and it just seemed natural for us.
~What would be your ideal situation for your first encounter? He would prefer a couple, which I'm totally ok with that idea. As for the actual situation, I have no idea.
~What is your biggest turn on? Wow, that's a hard one. I'm not sure if I can pick one.
~Do you have many other hobbies besides posting here? 
I work way to much to have any other hobbies. But I do like shopping, lifting weights, playing sports, swimming (for fun, not laps). But unfortunately, I don't get to much of anything but sleep, post on here, and work.
~What would you say it the most important message you have learned from the posts? Communication. It's easy in theory, but I have a really hard time opening up to others.
~Which member do you hold in highest regard and why? Everyone. I have a lot of respect for all the members here. Everyone gives such great advice and has been so helpful and friendly. I really couldn't pick just one, or even ten.
~What makes you laugh? There are a lot of things that make me laugh, but my boyfriend does the best job at making me laugh. He always knows just what to say or do.
~And finally....how on earth do you manage without sex...seperate continents! 
It's definitely hard. No, not just hard, it's nearly impossible. I get vacation every 3 months, so it's three months of no sex and then 2 weeks of nothing but sex!
It sucks; I don't recommend it to anyone.
~SS