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Originally Posted by JnCC You met this guy on a "sex and swingers website," and now, after investing considerable time and effort into this relationship, you've decided that you don't want to swing after all?
That's the kind of shit that drives guys crazy.
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I have to disagree here. Sites like AFF also have ads for singles seeking singles, so swinging might not have been such a prominent aspect of the original post. "Swinging while dating" for us at least, is along the lines of sex-buddies or even the way Kat and I met. When we dated, sure we slept wit our friends. But after, when we decided to get married, we stopped. Built our own relationship outside of the sex with friends. We discussed it years later and went back into things, once our relationship was firmly developed.
It may have been a poor choice of sites to use, it might have implied the wrong thing. But if it was a fem seeking male ad, where does swinging even come into it, except somewhat related due to the site they viewed each other's profile?