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Originally Posted by midnite_madness But, I guess it comes down to my insecurities of him being with other women. How do you make that go away? I know rationally that he's not going to leave or fall in love with the other woman... but emotionally it seems like a hurdle taller than I can surmount...  |
I know what you mean when it comes to insecurities when it comes to watching the man you love be with another woman. MrVan and I have an amazing relationship and through my past relationships I have not been able to get over the insecurities..Our first swap didn't bother me but as we get closer to our first FFM, I begin to get concerned. But by talking over my concerns with MrVan and continuing to know that at the end of the night he will be going home with me, that is all I need to make sure that my insecurities are gone. I know that he loves me and will never leave me as our relationship is so strong. It takes time and you both need to talk things through and explain why you have the insecurities and have him to help you realize that he is wanting only you to share his life with.
I feel for your situation and wish you the best of luck!
MrsVan