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in4alook · 03-06-2006, 05:01 AM

Your relationship isn't strong enough to handle this yet IMO. If you can't talk you should not be considering this at all. Also mixing the lifestyle with the vanilla world isn't a great plan. I would be pissed too in his situation even if I wanted you to.

One thought if you can't talk, how about writing a letter and handing it to him when he is in a good mood. Before you ask him to read it say please read this all the way through without stopping and let me know what you think. Then lay it all out to him without fear of making him mad. Tell him what you told us. Then if he says no respect that decision and either drop it or figure out if you still want to be with him if it doesn't happen.

03-06-2006, 05:01 AM	#13 (permalink)
in4alook Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 17 Location: Winchester Va Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:justin4alook	Re: Getting Husband Interested Your relationship isn't strong enough to handle this yet IMO. If you can't talk you should not be considering this at all. Also mixing the lifestyle with the vanilla world isn't a great plan. I would be pissed too in his situation even if I wanted you to. One thought if you can't talk, how about writing a letter and handing it to him when he is in a good mood. Before you ask him to read it say please read this all the way through without stopping and let me know what you think. Then lay it all out to him without fear of making him mad. Tell him what you told us. Then if he says no respect that decision and either drop it or figure out if you still want to be with him if it doesn't happen.