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Originally posted by Chicup
Sorry guys but being fat is an OPTION for most people, not a metabolic requirement. I knew I would get this response to my post because so many people act like weight gain is akin to losing a limb and there is nothing you can do about it but get on with your life and try to be accepted for who you are. THAT is the bullshit.
Why do you think people should just accept it?
BTW I'm far from being a diet or fitness freak, in fact I'm overweight myself, because I have been VERY lazy the last couple of years, and eat too much. I don't blame others for me being less attractive, and instead of whining about how shallow people are I know I can do something about it.
So you tell me what’s better for the original poster? Accepting being fat, trying to find people that 'accept' him, and as Juile pointed out having to deal with a possible self esteem issue, OR dealing with the root of the problem which is excess weight? |
People don't get into swinging so they can get free amateur psychoanalysis, Chicup. The last thing they want is having their physical shortcomings pointed out, whether they're real or not. What's next, handing out FDA diet guidelines at the next swinger's convention?
Christ, and people accuse
me of being judgemental in here.
Dan