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Originally Posted by CB_n_Red people who are obsessive about the size and shape of those they are meeting are probably not the sort we would want to meet anyway. |
Wow! We couldn't agree with you more!
In fact, John and I are astounded how many people will give astonishingly narrow margins for physical characteristics when they are looking for people to swing with, and they will completely ignore personality traits. These types of superficial people are not worth our time.
We look for sexy people who think of themselves as sexy people. It glows on someone when they feel sexy, and it says something about them in the bedroom. People who are caught up in physical characteristics tend to miss out on passion.
In fact, here's a line from our profile, as we describe the people we are interested in meeting...
"You are realistic about this, and you aren't expecting to have this resemble the last porn movie you saw. You know that great sex is something beyond the visual experience, and when great sex happens between people who truly love it, the experience is nothing short of fabulous and fun. Your ideal night, if all things fall into place, would end with fabulous sex, a tangle of body parts, mussed sheets, smeared makeup, and complete exhaustion."
So, to answer the original post...
Don't worry about body parts and lumps and bumps. Have fun. Enjoy yourself. Try and remember that everyone else is thinking about their own flaws too.
