 Re: Very very new to all of this and a bit worried about our bodies.
Nerd that I am I started to figure out the conversions, then I thought, "The hell with it," since I'm a lazy nerd.
Dito what the folks above said. If you are comfortable with each other in your current skins, then project that sexy confidence to others. They'll notice it.
If you still decide to re-figure yourselves, then go for it if you think it will improve your self-images and your health and well-being. But do it for you. And remember, you're in swinging to add a new dimension to your sex lives and enhance your relationship. Think of that when you are contemplating how to approach the lifestyle. Be realistic and don't obsess about it; this is supposed to be about enjoyment and not stress.
Jump in and enjoy!
Thrax
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