Unfortunately, we agree with the first. We have met several couples that are fun to be with, but know that sex is on everyone's mind. One couple, we thought we were developing a friendship with but due to the pressure of possible sex, the other couple has backed off of the whole swing-thing and ended the friendship. We also led a very boring social life.(we are older with 5 yr old triplets) We are going to continue with what we have been doing, but think will put less effort into a friends type of friendship.
Will also look forward to what the members have to say on this.
Sorry, I wasn't any help.
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Rhonda