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mksNmd · 12-31-2002, 08:55 AM

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Well said! Being in the lifestyle can and is (at times) a lot of work. Meeting the “right” people takes a tremendous amount of effort. Most of us do have some hangups and there is always something we don’t like about our own looks. Confidence is the key.

We are HWP (there is that dreaded language again), but we immediately ignore ads that put an emphasis on that and do not correspond with people that make it a pre-requisite before meeting. We are in the lifestyle to meet individuals with common interests. A sense of humor is required and you must be able to carry a conversation outside of the bedroom. And quite frankly the “beautiful and skinny people” don’t have a lock on that.

Remember: Your wife saw something in you that went beyond the weight. She is not the only one. Good luck big guy!

12-31-2002, 08:55 AM	#6 (permalink)
mksNmd Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 17 Location: East Coast, USA Status: Married Couple	<<<<>>>> Well said! Being in the lifestyle can and is (at times) a lot of work. Meeting the “right” people takes a tremendous amount of effort. Most of us do have some hangups and there is always something we don’t like about our own looks. Confidence is the key. We are HWP (there is that dreaded language again), but we immediately ignore ads that put an emphasis on that and do not correspond with people that make it a pre-requisite before meeting. We are in the lifestyle to meet individuals with common interests. A sense of humor is required and you must be able to carry a conversation outside of the bedroom. And quite frankly the “beautiful and skinny people” don’t have a lock on that. Remember: Your wife saw something in you that went beyond the weight. She is not the only one. Good luck big guy!