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avgcpl4u · 12-30-2002, 07:50 PM

Hi Julie and Everyone Else!

We're a married couple that has been in the lifestyle maybe going on 3 years now. I have something that has always bothered me regarding my wife and I when we go to swingers parties. My dilemma is that my wife is pretty much an average weight and size but as for myself, I'm like 5'10" 250lbs more on the heavy boned type of a guy. I've always been between 235-250lbs most of my life after 25yrs old. And I have noticed that everytime we go to a swingers party, people be asking my wife to play, but not myself?? And when my wife says we come as a "package deal", they say "see ya" under their breath. So we stand in the corner all night by our selves.
Other people friends have told me not to worry about it, that you'll find the right people that'll except you for the way you are. But being a little heavy still haunts me.
So, I was wondering if anybody else outhere in swingers land has the same hang up that I do?????

Any reponds would be most appreciated!!

Avgcpl4u

12-30-2002, 07:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
avgcpl4u Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 35 Location: Hawaii Status: C	When Your Wife Is Average Weight And Size And "YOU'RE NOT"... Hi Julie and Everyone Else! We're a married couple that has been in the lifestyle maybe going on 3 years now. I have something that has always bothered me regarding my wife and I when we go to swingers parties. My dilemma is that my wife is pretty much an average weight and size but as for myself, I'm like 5'10" 250lbs more on the heavy boned type of a guy. I've always been between 235-250lbs most of my life after 25yrs old. And I have noticed that everytime we go to a swingers party, people be asking my wife to play, but not myself?? And when my wife says we come as a "package deal", they say "see ya" under their breath. So we stand in the corner all night by our selves. Other people friends have told me not to worry about it, that you'll find the right people that'll except you for the way you are. But being a little heavy still haunts me. So, I was wondering if anybody else outhere in swingers land has the same hang up that I do????? Any reponds would be most appreciated!! Avgcpl4u