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Originally Posted by EvilMJ ohh what a tough one eh!
Myself, I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole.
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Isn't it funny how I can have sex without a realtionship with a couple but I can't have sex without a realationship with someone I used to date...no one said I was normal.
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wow EvilM... you are not alone ... I feel the same way.
I am not going to go there... to be honest the only reason I felt the urge , was the fact he sent me two very erotic e-cards, on Valentines Day ( he always did know how to get my motor running) then ended them with " now go play with your rabbit"...(my favorite toy).
I called him and asked him what the heck he meant by that? That he was sending mixed messages. I mean I sent him a silly talking monkey that said " you have to kiss allot of frogs..." I got two cards designed to be aphrodisiacs!”
He said he sent them " because I am very sensual "
I told him ... don't you dare do that again... it is not appropriate.
I would say that it was cruel, in retrospect; Perhaps not intentional but cruel none the less.
For that day it did make me nuts... conditioned response, I guess. Lucky for me I have good friends and the wisdom of those on the SB. The honesty to admit my short commings and the wisdom to ask the baord for help! Thank you ... thank you...for saving me from my libido!
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Ofrdcple you are so right... that is the fear... that he will be the last great lover I will ever have.
The good news is I let that go and the powers that be have already started making my world a potentially more wonderful place. The other good news is... I am at the least...able to focus on the good and not dwell on the bad.
Now if I could just get Hilltop to come and clean my kitchen with his shirt off… live would be grand!lol
A purring,
~Cat