[EvilMJ]

ohh what a tough one eh!

Myself, I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole. Not because I feel it is wrong to have sex with him, but because I would just end up getting hurt. I would start wanting more and I would not be able to have it.

Ugh...there is nothing worse then wanting something you can't have. I guess you have to determine if you are able to handle having just sex and nothing more.

I had a boyfriend before hubby that I was crazy in love with, he broke up with me and left me absolutely crushed, however I remained very pleasant with him when I ran into him from time to time as I don't see the point in being petty. So one night we met up on the street, he was really amazed that I could be so nice to him and invited me over to a bar where some of our friends were. Long story short we eneded up getting together that night for one last fling. It ended up being a bit ackward (despite the fact that our sex life used to be wonderful), I guess it was due to the fact that the intimacy and trust were missing. I will always have feelings for him, but in the end just sex was not enough.

Isn't it funny how I can have sex without a realtionship with a couple but I can't have sex without a realationship with someone I used to date...no one said I was normal.

Good luck, I guess in the end only you can answer your question.