[EvilMJ]

I can understand what you are saying. There are times my husband gets fed up with the lifestyle becuase he can't find what he is looking for - meaning there is no woman there at the time that he finds he wants to hook up with , or he gets some mixed signals that he claims he is just not 'wired to deal with.' It can get frustrating at times when we go out and I get lots of attention but he just doesn't seem into it.

Now don't get me wrong, hubby is an attractive man, but he is just not very interested in mind games, drama or confusion in general, the poor man likes things straight forward and clear. So yes, it can be very difficult when one partner is having fun and the other is not.

We took a break for a little over a month to straighten ourselves out and see what we wanted to do. I agree that in your case Hubby has gotten to the poitn where he wants full swap and feels that you may be getting the better end of the stick on this one. I guess you really need to sit down and figure out how far you are willing to progress, and if it is not enough for him - if you should continue in the lifestyle.