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Originally Posted by WesternSwing I would imagine, sweetmelissa, that the reason your husband is dissatisfied with the outcome is that he isn't getting nearly the enjoyment out of it you are. In my soft swap experiences Mrs. WS gets lots and lots of attention from both the husband and the wife and usually has several orgasms. The attention I get from just the other wife is good, but usually not all the way to orgasm, upon which I finish with Mrs. WS. She gets fun with them and me, and I get fun with pretty much just her. Yup, leaves me feeling cheated.
Could this be happening in your situation? It would definitely explain his wanting to change to full swap.
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I appreciate all the constructive comments from everyone-- but someone help me out here. Western Swing (above), you sound just like my husband when he is complaining about being left out! The fact is that many of the men in these situations seem to be perfectly happy watching the girls play and joining in with their own spouse as is appropriate. (In my opinion, those guys are lucky to be there and are truly living most men's fantasy anyway.) The fact is, I do not feel comfortable with full swap, maybe I never will, and pressure to full swap (from couples or my husband)is a big turnoff for me. He knows this and presses the issue anyway, usually hurting my feelings in the process. This is all really beside the point anyway, because the issue here is that various sources of his dissatisfaction (not always due to soft swap issues) are leading to conflict with my husband.