The Swingers Board - View Single Post - He's never satisified with the outcome of our swinging experiences

intuition897 · 02-16-2006, 02:33 PM

You know it's funny. I've noticed that folks tend to communicate to strangers on a message board in exactly the same way they should be communicating with their partner. I'd say read him the post you wrote. Then ask him - really - what does he want out of the lifestyle? Because it doesn't seem to be a good experience for either of you anymore. So what's up?

It doesn't have to be angry or confrontational. You're just asking because, as you said, your marriage comes before all else, and you don't want anything to come between you.

02-16-2006, 02:33 PM	#7 (permalink)
intuition897 Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897	Re: Conflicted...need some advice please! You know it's funny. I've noticed that folks tend to communicate to strangers on a message board in exactly the same way they should be communicating with their partner. I'd say read him the post you wrote. Then ask him - really - what does he want out of the lifestyle? Because it doesn't seem to be a good experience for either of you anymore. So what's up? It doesn't have to be angry or confrontational. You're just asking because, as you said, your marriage comes before all else, and you don't want anything to come between you.
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