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Old 02-16-2006, 01:42 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Default Re: Conflicted...need some advice please!

I would imagine, sweetmelissa, that the reason your husband is dissatisfied with the outcome is that he isn't getting nearly the enjoyment out of it you are. In my soft swap experiences Mrs. WS gets lots and lots of attention from both the husband and the wife and usually has several orgasms. The attention I get from just the other wife is good, but usually not all the way to orgasm, upon which I finish with Mrs. WS. She gets fun with them and me, and I get fun with pretty much just her. Yup, leaves me feeling cheated.

Could this be happening in your situation? It would definitely explain his wanting to change to full swap.

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