Re: Conflicted...need some advice please!
Swing is supposed to be fun for all involved. Once it is not fun, there is no reason to do it.
Seems that you need to sit down with your husband. Explain that you do enjoy swinging but that it has not been fun because of the out come. Don't fight about it, talk about it.
If you still want to swing then you both need to review your rules and see what works for BOTH of you. If you can not come to an agreement that you both are happy with then don't swing.
Your relationship and happeniness is more important then swinging. If you can not live without the swinging then your only other choice is to live without your husband.
Time to make choices. Hope you make the one that makes you and yours happy and it all works out for the best.
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