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Originally Posted by BodyScape02 Of course not hon... You are the bait.. without you he wouldn't get any play at all....and he knows it!
Quit being a doormat for love. You gave away your self-respect and got nothing for it in return.
Been there done that... my question is... with everything you have told us about him (To me the most telling statement you made was that he didn't like it when you had fun.); Why in gods green earth do you want to stay with him anyway? Do you have a martyr complex?
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Hi Cat and thanks for the note, my answer is pretty simple, I love him. And how do you walk away from the one you love?
It's funny, the other night we were in bed watching tv, and one of those online dating commercials came on, (we met on yahoo 4 years ago) so we got to talking and he said in the beginning he was affraid to tell me that he was hairy all over, that I might find it a 'turn-off" and not agree to meet him in person. All I could do was laugh, and then I said,
"You being hairy would have never been the reason for us not meeting, but.... you're so lucky, had I known you were serious about your interest in swinging and screwing other people for fun, had I known, I would have never got involved with you at all."
3 years ago when he first started the serious swinger talk, we were at a resteurant, after dinner, we decided on Apple Dumplings, we were full so I suggested that we share one dumpling, he said, "no, I don't want to share one, I want one to myself"...... Well that statement hurt me, He made me feel that the apple dumpling was more special then me, his wife.
So if someone, anyone can explain why that apple dumpling was more important then me, I'd sure like to know.