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Originally Posted by just1gurl Alrighty then, I've been reading and reading these posts.
My question is:
WHAT EXACTLY IS IT THAT "RESPECTS" the couples involved and their relationship????
This is alluded too, seconded, and amened all over the boards. BUT WHAT IS IT? |
Been busy lately so I haven't had a chance to answer many posts, so I'm coming to this one late.
To us "respecting a couple's relationship" has to do with realizing they are married to each other and treating each member of the other couple as such. They go home with each other and either relive a great experience, or work through problems you contributed to creating.
Respecting that they are #1 in each other's life. Not crossing any boundries or breaking any rules that they may have set. Realizing that the other person is some else's world and not just the costar in some twisted little porn movie going on in your head. Sure we're all coming together for some sex, but that doesn't give another guy the right to treat Mrs. WS like his personal little whore. It always amazes me how some of the unintiated single males will say rauncy things to Mrs. WS that they'd never say to a vanilla chick they were hitting on, just because we're swingers.
Overall, respecting them as people as you would anybody else, or even better then anyone else because they are allowing you to be intimate with them.
Mr. WS