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Originally Posted by just1gurl If I had emotions to deal with I'd do it later on my own time and evaluate the whole thing and whether I fit this lifestyle, not freak out on people who showed up at my invitation to have sex with. |
I don't think "No drama" necessarily means staying silent even if something bothers you, until it (whatever it is) is done. You can nicely but directly say something like "____ is starting to bug me a little. Let's slow it down a bit." or "You guys are great, this is fun, but we need to stop for now because the situation is making me uncomfortable." We have never had to say (or hear) either of those but wouldn't mind a bit if a couple got to that point and said it...as long is they didn't use the Jerry McGuire-I'm taking the fish-freak out voice.
You may not have meant it that way but just wanted to pose a point, either way.
Mr.