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wolfnblu · 02-14-2006, 08:30 AM

What's all this about keeping score? That's not the problem as I see it; the problem is that they agreed to PLAY TOGETHER, and *IF* she did anything in the bathroom with the other woman, she broke their agreement. I don't see anything in his writing that says he's upset because she got hers and he didn't, which would be a "keeping score" issue....I see him being upset because she did something (maybe) that wasn't within their agreed-upon boundaries.

If it had been a man that she had (presumedly) played with in the bathroom would your responses be different, those of you who say he's making too much of it?

02-14-2006, 08:30 AM	#15 (permalink)
wolfnblu Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 95 Location: Kansas City area Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:wolfnblu	Re: Am I making a moutain out of mole hill??? What's all this about keeping score? That's not the problem as I see it; the problem is that they agreed to PLAY TOGETHER, and IF she did anything in the bathroom with the other woman, she broke their agreement. I don't see anything in his writing that says he's upset because she got hers and he didn't, which would be a "keeping score" issue....I see him being upset because she did something (maybe) that wasn't within their agreed-upon boundaries. If it had been a man that she had (presumedly) played with in the bathroom would your responses be different, those of you who say he's making too much of it?
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