 Re: Am I making a moutain out of mole hill???
We have come up with all kinds of rules, and before we even got to rule #1 it changed. However, our one big rule is that drinking shouldn't change the rules we set when sober. You can change the rules, but only when you're sober.
The "heat of the moment" can be effected by foreplay, music, drugs, alchohol, what have you. We have talked at length that we don't want to be influenced by alchohol or drugs, because the next day you either 1) don't remember or 2) are embarassed because you wouldn't have done the same thing sober.
If one of us is crossing the line from the having fun and staying within the boundaries to "uninhibited drunken bliss" the other steps in and says it's "no go". Seems like you guys had quite a bit to drink, and whether or not she was in the right or you were.....it's not a great situation to have a swinger experience with. Until you find your groove, it's important to keep a clear head and see what's going on in front of you.
Mrs LOL
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