 Re: Did hubby go too far?
Hi chinadoll,
I really feel for you.
Unfortunately, my gut feeling is that your husband and the other woman have been having a clandestine relationship and have got you and her husband to agree to swinging to facilitate their relationship (it's easier to hide a relationship that "appears" to be out in the open).
From my experience (yes, personal experience - until I realized what was going on and broke off from the guy, I was the unwitting "other woman" in a that's-what-the-wife-was-made-to-believe-it-was threesome), if you go along with swinging with them, the four of you MAY swing together sometimes, but don't be surprised if your husband continues to pursue a private relationship with her.
You need to really sit down with your husband and find out what's going on. Don't be afraid to let him know how hurt you are and how it's destroyed your trust in him.
(I'd even go so far as to insist that due to his sneaking around, that that couple is off-limits .... you'll never be able to trust that he's not seeing her behind your back.)
MrsOttawaCuple
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