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Originally Posted by Deptydog When we started, we found that the rules we had set for ourselves were too restrictive and couldn't address many of the situations we were in. Now, we try to be mindful of each other's feelings when we are at a party |
Do tell me about your rules Depty DAWG! and I want to know about your carrots too!
not to interrupt the original post: "Through one of those sites, we were invited to join a local swing group. I had my reservations about it because to me it was going too far to the extreme. " What's extreme? You were just going to be around other people who were also trying to live their fantasies just as you wanted.
Not that I think you should take my advice!!!
but, sugar, you just got on the ride. Enjoy. Don't analyze this too much. Go with your heart for sure. But YOU got on the ride. Wait til it comes to a stop. It's different for you too, doing this as a single, not married like the most of these good folks, (I just moved from the south) they've been in a relationship, alot of them for years. The bonds that hold their relationships together are TOTALLY different from a guy with a girl he's only been with a short while. This kind of thing will open a lot of doors. All of them you may not like, but then again, you may. you had a bi fantasy, she had a bi-reality. BUT, did we assume this? Maybe she hadn't had enough fiber in the last couple of days???? Maybe your jealous? I don't know anything about this though, other than the line to the rollercoaster keeps getting shorter! Dont take too much stock in my thoughts. just a thought