Yes, it has left me wondering about a possible affair of some kind. Our profile was created at the same time as theirs on the swingers site. I have never had to go through this in a relationship. Why do I feel in a sense that even if they only met once, that he cheated? Also, I don't think her husband knows. Should I tell him? Should I have my hubby tell the other lady that I know? I did like the couple...should we still be friends? As you can see...I have so many questions. I am a bit lost. Thanks again for the replies.