 Re: Am I making a moutain out of mole hill???
I will be the unpopular one here and say that I think you DO you have a valid concern (s).
If you think she and the other female hooked up in the bathroom and she's not telling you the truth, then that's a trust issue and you need to work that out before anything else.
If she DID hook up with the girl and is lying, that's a big deal cuz there's a problem with your relationship and she DID break the rules and the trust you had about your expectations to do this together.
If she DIDN'T hook up, and explained to this girl what you two had agreed on, and you're just being untrusting, there's either a reason, or you're just paranoid and you need to figure out which and fix it.
If she DIDN'T hook up, but agreed that she would like to try it alone with this girl at a later time, then she wants to change the game and that is the time for conversation about where you will go from here.
Your feelings are there for a reason, I would not dismiss them without examining them. You will always learn something about yourself and your relationship. And that's not a bad thing.
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