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Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr) For us it is easy..............treat us as one, not as a man and a woman, nor wife and husband, but as one. Granted how you engage each of us on a personal level will differ slightly, but as a whole view us as one slice of life, not two pieces on one plate and the rest will fall into place. |
This is it. We play together, we don't have separate and secret emails and don't give out our separate cell phone numbers. We read and compose email responses together and agree on the couples and singles we'll play with.
For instance one thing that really bothers me at the club is when a single guy (this works in reverse for single women too) comes up to me as soon as Spoo walks away. At that point you have already lost regardless of how much of a hunk you are or how well hung. You've just disrespected Spoo in my book and I will brush you off as fast as I can.
We were talking with a stripper that came and did a show at the club and she hugged me good bye and addressed me most of the time while talking with both of us. She's married, doesn't swing and has a boat load of kids, as she left Spoo jokingly said aren't you going to say good bye to me too. She "yes but I didn't want to disrespect your wife by assuming it was okay to do that". Wow! Now that is respect. She was very sweet and never rude to Spoo and we all talked for quite a while but her whole demeanor was respectful the whole time. I hope, since in her profession I'm sure she doesn't get respect all the time, that she felt like she got it from us. Our conversation was about kids and some personal things and never even went to stripping or swinging.
I guess the point is respect the couple and never come across like your trying to move in on one or the other.
Mrs Spoomonkey