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Originally Posted by just1gurl Whats a "cert"? |
A breath mint.
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ok to put this there
and OK to do this - but not that
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Rules are rules. Smart couples and singles follow them. If I as a swinger know where the boundaries are, I can decide if I want to play within those boundaries. If not, I try to convince someone (or them) to change the rules. If we agree, it's a party; if we don't agree, then it's bye-bye or more talk, to be succinct.
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dont cuddle afterwards - shes mine or whatever it is that gets them going
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In true swinging, ANY party can decide where the "NO" boundary is. I'm a single male. Sometimes the boundaries make me unhappy. Too bad. Those are the rules.
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AND ALWAYs - DARN IT - gotta have those stupid rubbers. I hate rubbers, but I dislike viruses even more.
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You aren't the only one who hates rubbers. In that category haters are probably 99% or more. But, if those are the rules, those are the rules. (I hate viruses, therefore I must love rubbers?) No rubbers? Then that means TRUST, which is affiliated with RESPECT.
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is that what you mean but not unrestricted sex? or is there still more I'm not getting??
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Unfortunately, there is no true "unrestricted sex."
Oh, if sex could be unrestricted, casual, etc.
