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novabicple · 02-09-2006, 07:35 PM

Gents,

You are the epitome of what's right in schwingworld!!! Great communication with your partners - willingness to try new things - eager to please you partners - and confident enough in your relationship to tell her that you either liked it or didn't, want to do it again, or don't want to take one for the team. Bravo!!!! Kudos, too, to your SO for trusting you/respecting you enough to bring it up and accepting your ultimate decision. As Monsieur Spoo says, the 'I did this for you, so you do that for me.' discussion is wrong for a lot of reasons. It doesn't appear that you'd do that.

Straight, Bi, or Curious, you're the kind of people we like to meet - the truly open-minded kind of people that make the 'style fun.

Mr. Nova

BTW - Don't feel alone in your curiosity - our 'phone' rings off the hook with couples (guys with wives/girlfriends) expanding their boundaries. Of those we've chosen to meet, some have said "Not again, thanks." and some have said "Wow, why have I waited so long!". Whatever floats your boat - it's all about having fun...

02-09-2006, 07:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
novabicple Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 21 Location: Northern Virginia Status: Happily Married Couple	Re: bi-men Gents, You are the epitome of what's right in schwingworld!!! Great communication with your partners - willingness to try new things - eager to please you partners - and confident enough in your relationship to tell her that you either liked it or didn't, want to do it again, or don't want to take one for the team. Bravo!!!! Kudos, too, to your SO for trusting you/respecting you enough to bring it up and accepting your ultimate decision. As Monsieur Spoo says, the 'I did this for you, so you do that for me.' discussion is wrong for a lot of reasons. It doesn't appear that you'd do that. Straight, Bi, or Curious, you're the kind of people we like to meet - the truly open-minded kind of people that make the 'style fun. Mr. Nova BTW - Don't feel alone in your curiosity - our 'phone' rings off the hook with couples (guys with wives/girlfriends) expanding their boundaries. Of those we've chosen to meet, some have said "Not again, thanks." and some have said "Wow, why have I waited so long!". Whatever floats your boat - it's all about having fun...