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Old 02-09-2006, 02:01 PM   #5 (permalink)
NandTfromCA
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NandTfromCA gives some great advice
Default Re: curious-men

I hesitated posting this on here because I don't want to be labeled, and I don't want to limit the couples that N and I might hook up with (a homophobic male half saying "let's cross them off our list"). At the same time, I have to think that there are alot of straight guys who wonder in the back of their minds about this. Maybe I'm wrong; maybe I'm just a freak.

The first response that comes to mind is that I wouldn't want N to play with girls just to excite me. Since I happen to enjoy it, that's just a bonus.

I would never play with a dude just to excite her either. That said, she has had a MM fantasy and I had been curious about sucking a guy's cock for a while. The chance came up, we were swapping with another couple who's male half is as much a freak as I am and that we have become very comfortable with, so we gave it a try.

It was pretty funny how the conversation went down (the girls were both pleasuring us orally at the moment):
Me: Hey J, have you ever thought about sucking a guys cock before?
J: Dude, I don't know what your thinking but I wouldn't want to hurt your feelings or anything. I would NEVER kiss a guy.
Me: Don't worry, neither would I. That grosses me out. But I have thought about sucking a guys cock.
J: Yeah, I have too. You can suck mine if you want.
Me:

After a minute or two, I was done. Not grossed out but not at all excited either. I just wanted to get back to paying attention to someone more feminine.

N enjoyed the show and I satisfied a curiosity. I doubt I will ever want to do it again, but it was still cool to explore my boundaries. I guess I found one
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