I just wanted to say...my opinion comes from experience ...
If you check far back in my postings you will see we had a woman interested in play with us, ( and particularly interested in my mate) who played with a married man and gave him a cert ( on Swing Lifestyle) that she would gladly enjoy his company again.
In checking on her profile I followed the links and discovered he glowing certification. She helped him commit adultery! She wanted to meet my man for "lunch" and was contacting him on her own... needless to say I was a bit ..upset.
I mentioned it to my ex and she erased it . Luckily, I copied it prior to her removal of it... so I could prove I was not nuts. My ex was thrilled to have a single woman interested in him/us and felt I was over reacting.
I told her no and called her on it... and my ex was a tad upset at me... so I contacted the board for help and perspective, as I was very new to this. It is in a thread entitled “ Would you trust this woman???”
You can read more about here:
http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/...ad.php?t=10051